Ok update!.. I fixed it!!!! smh.. idk why this worked but it did. I was running windows 8.1 i updated to windows 10 just to see if that helped...nothing changed then i came across someone on reddit who had the same problem and he said he unplugged his keyboard !!!!!!!....... Ill be damned it worked! he was using a k70 keyboard im using a blackwidow chroma... Now im back (In) the game... see what i did there...whatever.. ;} Not saying this will work for everyone but put this move on your check list of things to try for a controller that wont pair....